gay bars and clubs, falling from 125 to 53 in just over a decade, according to research from the. While it's impossible for the app to screen out all the haters, you can get a decent sense of user's views on trans and queer people and whether they're gonna be an asshole because you love cable. It has become the new pick-up line, he says. Best for inclusivity The Good 22 gender and 13 orientation options Large user base Trusted matchmaking algorithm Woke for a not exclusively lgbtq app The Bad A-List can get pricey Not lgbtq-specific The Bottom Line As their slogan says, "Dating deserves better." OkCupid has made. Best specifically for gay men The Good Massive selection for gay men Well-done online lifestyle publication Dick pics galore The Bad Almost no boundaries Most dick pics are unsolicited Selection is less robust in less populated areas The Bottom Line As nsfw as it can. Best for queer women, hER, hER is where you can meet nearby lesbians you never knew existed, plus read up on lgbtq news and local events. Grindr lacks the boundaries other apps provide, so don't be surprised if people you haven't liked on the app message you. With close to 6 million monthly users, it's one of the largest apps in the game. Dating apps may be part of the problem in more liberal cultures, but for some in repressive countries they are a solution, says Peter Sloterdyk, vice-president of marketing at Grindr.